Hi. Like many African traditions, a Bhaca man would choose a woman who 's got... 1.Big body: believing to be strong with big hips believing that she is fertile strong beautiful children will be born. 2.Children: Preferred boys . A Boy is believed to carry the legacy of the family usually a firstborn. If a girl is the firstborn then any boy born whether last or middle is an heir.If they are all girls a second wife or third ,fifth will be sought. This could spread to the brother of the husband. If is like that an Oversee position is given to him.In other words no decision will be taken without him.Only the Big decisions like relocating,chairing weddings,charging the number of cattle for his brother's daughter. Funeral Oversee. He will make sure the family does not starve. A Girl is believed if well guided to "enrich" the family.12 to 15 cattle will be sent by her prospective husband to her family. If it happens that the girls comes the Chief or Right man of a...