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Before Establishing a Family

As I mentioned  before in the boy family meeting the crucial  questions  and the suggestions  are enforced even it will mean a  breakway wouldn't  matter.

What are the crucial questions?
1.The Girl Family  history
How will  be the possible  relations with the Boy Family? Will this additional  family be toxic or not? Does this  Girl Family  have or had  a bad history  in the community or with other  families or with the present boy family.

2.How is the Girl family popular  at present?
-Is it a family of Criminals?
-Is it a warmonger  family?
-Is it a family of witches?
_Are they undermining other  families like Pride?
-How possible will they accept the boy family and their new son of Law?

3.How is the Boy Family popular?
-Is it a "strong" family, meaning  this family  can it withstand all the temptations with the Girl Family?
-Is the any harmony  between  the  Boy and Girl Families?
-Does he have  the  qualities  of a Man, meaning does he have enough stocks,
industrious?Education  is the cherry on girl.Other families  want to know  even the bank balance  and how does he generate money?
He must state clearly, whether  he will have a polygamy  in future he has already one.

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