Negotiations of Uniting the two Families

After the two families have satisfied they have satisfied themselves with their own criterion.then the negotiations can start.

Afterall there's no perfect family but the line of tolerance should be drawn.In any family the extremes are controlled and minimized.

Sometimes, the couple does not listen their families.They decide to leave the village and get to another village.However there will challenges.

1.There's a possibility that the couple will not have children.

2.One or even the couple may have a permanent disease.

3.The couple may not have peace.

4.The source of Income may dry up where their business may vanish or not being hired anywhere.

5.More dark spirits in the family.

6.That can result to violent death to the one of the couple or both of them.

When the families have negotiated successfully, there are certain benefits for the faimly:

1.The bride and groom families may "donate" stocks or even money on top to start the new family.

2.The children to be born have a share interests to the family and blessings.

3.Other benefits

The new couple may access cars and other Assets

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