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Negotiations of Uniting the two Families

After the two  families have satisfied  they have satisfied  themselves  with their own criterion.then the negotiations  can start.
Afterall there's  no perfect  family but the line of tolerance should be drawn.In any family  the extremes are controlled  and minimized.

Sometimes, the couple does not listen their families.They decide to leave the village and get to another village.However there will  challenges.

1.There's  a possibility  that the couple will not have children.
2.One or even the couple may have a permanent disease.
3.The couple may not have peace.
4.The source  of Income may dry up where their business may vanish or not being hired  anywhere.
5.More  dark spirits in the family.
6.That can result to violent death to the one of the couple or both of them.

When the families have negotiated  successfully, there are certain  benefits for the faimly:
1.The bride and groom  families  may "donate" stocks or even money on top to start the new family.
2.The  children to be  born have a share interests to the family and blessings.
3.Other benefits
The new couple may access cars and other  Assets

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