How is the Girl child prepared for Marriage?

Usually they emphasize on daily chores and that a good woman should:

1.Wake up early in the morning when others are still sleeping,sweep the yard and fetch water from the River.

2.She must prepare the breakfast for the Parents which includes cereals and tea.

3.Prepare water for bathing for parents and the rest of the family.

4.Later in the day,she may be taught how to plant and watering the vegetables.

5.Sometimes,she may be send to sell some of the corns,vegetables or encourage to make her or family vegetable store.

6.Alternatively they were taught to make

Grass Mats.

The routine is daily. When the time comes,she will get the marraige proposal.She will matched against her performance.

If she appears not ready, she will be not released

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