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Boy Preparation

Last time I discussed,how is the Girl prepared for adulthood.Now its boy preparation. 

1.Fatherly  Preparation 
A Young man is prepared to face the world
This is done in a harder  way which includes harsh action.There was a believe that  if he could   overcome any obstacles in future.

The Boy Preparation to manhood  and duties included:
1.To build a kraal/house.
2.To report any problem which affects  the homestead  and bring solutions. Actual to protect the family and distant relatives.
3.To lead or be strong amongst his peers.
4.To respect  children,mothers  especially  in Polygamy.
5.To protect the family,physical  from the strangers or anyone who threatens,
mistreating  the family.
6.To upgrade  himself to Popularity amongst the local  girls.It will be easier to get any girl.
7.To be  a good Shepherd.

What is not expected from a Boy.
1.Not  to take chores.
2.Laziness.
3.Not run away when beaten.
4.Not to be a Women and Children Abuser.
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