Bhaca language

Usually they emphasize  on daily chores and that a good woman should: 1.Wake up early in the morning  when others  are still sleeping,sweep the yard and  fetch water from the River. 2.She must prepare  the breakfast for the Parents which includes cereals and tea. 3.Prepare water  for bathing for parents and the rest of the family. 4.Later in the day,she  may be taught how to plant and watering the vegetables. 5.Sometimes,she  may be send  to sell some of the corns,vegetables  or  encourage to make  her or  family vegetable store. 6.Alternatively  they were taught to make Grass Mats. The routine is daily. When the time comes,she  will get the marraige proposal.She will matched against her  performance. If she appears  not ready, she will be not released

After the two  families have satisfied  they have satisfied  themselves  with their own criterion.then the negotiations  can start. Afterall there's  no perfect  family but the line of tolerance should be drawn.In any family  the extremes are controlled  and minimized. Sometimes, the couple does not listen their families.They decide to leave the village and get to another village.However there will  challenges. 1.There's  a possibility  that the couple will not have children. 2.One or even the couple may have a permanent disease. 3.The couple may not have peace. 4.The source  of Income may dry up where their business may vanish or not being hired  anywhere. 5.More  dark spirits in the family. 6.That can result to violent death to the one of the couple or both of them. When the families have negotiated  successfully, there are certain  benefits for the faimly: 1.The bride and groom  families  m...